Love is a crucial element in every relationship. The hidden truth in such relationships is shrinking the expectations because where expectation creeps in, disappointment will naturally follow.
Some kind of expectations will always be present in healthy relationships. We have to keep these to a minimum and raise acceptance of each other to the maximum.
Voice your expectations in a calm and relaxed manner. Do not sulk since the other person cannot read your mind. It is always crucial to learn to forgive, in any harmonious relationship. People do mistakes, intentionally or unintentionally, sometimes in a moment of anger or hurt. It is essential to let go of the past and build your relationship anew every day. That is the essence of life.
Appreciate the good in the other; if something seems to be going negative, it may be the other person’s nature, so just accept it. Always have gratitude for what you have. Fix with love what you can, and accept what you cannot. For your self-spiritual growth, grow together and understand the family.
Selfishness decreases when there is a sense of spirituality in life or a spirit of service to the community. Narrow-mindedness and selfishness lead to disharmony.
To assure harmony, cultivate a vision of inclusiveness. An ensured mantra for harmony in life is a family that prays together, grows together, serves together, will stay together. To have an abundance of love, harmony, joy, and prosperity, cultivate such habits in your family.